I get asked about this a lot (especially by my coaching clients): how can I be successful in my business, how can I be different? What will make me stand out from everyone else doing the same thing? What will attract clients to me?
The answer is simple really: “Be You”What ever you do – be it Pilates, Yoga, Business, Hypnosis, Coaching, Personal Training, parent, grandparent, child etc. – it makes no difference. The answer is always the same – the secret ingredient is to just be YOU.
Be true to who you are, your values, your beliefs and that will shine through.
You will never be the only person doing what you do, there will always be another Pilates teacher, another coach and so on. If you focus on that, and not on being you and being the best that you can be, then you will always live in fear of never being good enough.
Comparative thinking doesn’t work for anyone.
It’s the same when you are a parent: my daughter wrote an excellent article on this just this week – read it here, but please be aware that she swears more than I do! It really doesn’t matter what society expects you to do, what family and peers expect you to do, all that really matters is that you are doing/being who YOU are and that will always be good enough.
For me in my business, I have a strong belief in myself, an unshakable knowledge that I can help people with their Mind, Body & Soul. I know what I am good at, I’m passionate about the things I do and this shines through. I put this out in a message that resonates with people, that is inspiring and impactful on peoples lives, I deliver workshops, courses, classes, sessions that work for people, consistently and in a meaningful way to them. I’m just being ME and that is the ‘secret ingredient’ to business and life!
I parented in exactly the same way, I have relationships in the same way, I live my life in the same way and that shines through.
So, whether your angst is business-related or life-related, don’t look outside for the answer, look inside and discover if you truly know who YOU are………. If you don’t, it is so easy to get lost on your journey 🙂
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